Or, you know, the jeans. What got me thinking today was word of a new study suggesting that one of the reasons we birds of a feather flock together could be more than a common interest in flying south. It turns out, there’s often genetic similarity in the folks we choose as friends. As in: [...]
Archive for January, 2011
Caught in the bubble? It’s about the genes …
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", culture, decision, decision-making, tagged echo chamber, genetic traits, James Fowler, Lori Gottlieb, PNAS, time.com, Undecided: How to ditch the endless quest for perfect and find a career -- and life -- that works for you on January 27, 2011 | 2 Comments »
Signs from the Universe. Or Elsewhere
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", culture, decision-making, identity, tagged Dr. laura davis, erin allday, patty morris, peace x peace, pema chodron, priscilla warner, zodiac on January 20, 2011 | 1 Comment »
So surely you’ve heard about the latest kerfuffle: the realignment of the Zodiac. The addition of a new sign, Ophiuchus (the serpent bearer), knocked every other sign out of whack and for a week there, the interwebs were abuzz: If you woke up a Taurus, you were an Aries by the time you went to [...]
When Mormon Motherhood Porn is Your Happy Place
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", culture, feminism, grass-is-greener, too many choices, why women?, tagged comparing, Emily Matchar, escapism, grass-is-greener, jezebel, Mormon blogs, perfection, Salon.com on January 18, 2011 | 3 Comments »
So, today, I must must write about the most shocking, scandalous, jaw-dropping thing I came across this weekend. (And, no, it has nothing whatsoever to do with Ricky Gervais.) The item of intrigue was a story on Salon.com, entitled… wait for it… “Why I can’t stop reading Mormon housewife blogs: I’m a young, feminist atheist [...]
The next new reality show? Mail-order sexism
Posted in culture, feminism, tagged Bloomberg News, mail order brides, sexism, The Bachelor, The Bachelorette on January 13, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
So according to Bloomberg News, the newest brides on the block (I use that metaphor intentionally) are Eastern European. Really. As we read in the story that appeared all over the interwebs this week: Fourteen years ago, Weiner, 73, founded Hand-In-Hand, a London-based matchmaking agency that charges male customers up to $2,000 for a “supervised [...]
Fly Away Home, Or Eat, Crazy, Sexy, Pray Redux
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", culture, feminism, grass-is-greener, identity, why women?, tagged " New York Times Magazine, Claire Dederer, Judith Warner, seeking, yoga on January 11, 2011 | 1 Comment »
Oh, contentment. Fulfillment. Happiness. So slippery, so elusive. And yet, we never stop looking for it, do we? A generation ago, women–stuck in the home and driven apeshit by a never-ending list of mindless chores–ran screaming out of those homes (and, sometimes, away from their families), certain fulfillment was waiting for them in the world [...]
All the News That (Gives you) Fits
Posted in culture, feminism, tagged American Enterprise Institute, Anne Hayes, Antonin Scalia, Calvin Massey, health care reform, john boehner, Lionel Tiger, Michelle Bachmann, Ms Magazine, nancy Pelosi, Norman Ornstein, Pledge to America, The New Yorker, Tracy Clark-Flory, UC Hastings on January 6, 2011 | 1 Comment »
Welcome to 2011. Whether you happen to be a member of roughly one-half the population or just a human being, you’re sure to find something below to make you think. Or possibly scream. First up, Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia, who apparently believes that the 14th Amendment — that’s the one that talks about equal [...]
The Likability Problem
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", being judged, feminism, why women?, workplace, tagged Cameron Anderson, Deborah Gruenfeld, Facebook, Frank Flynn, have it all, Heidi Roizen, likability, Sheryl Sandberg, TED, what will people think? on January 4, 2011 | 8 Comments »
Today, I watched a TED Talk by Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook. Entitled “Why We Have Too Few Women Leaders,” Sandberg gets into it, leading off with the bleak facts: Of the 190 heads of state, nine are women. Of all the people in parliament in the world, 13 percent are women. In the corporate [...]

