According to a new report out of Sweden, the answer may be no. Sigh. Can’t you just hear the backlash? The ugly comparisons to the odious Miranda Priestly of “The Devil Wears Prada” fame? The rousing chorus of “I told you so”? Sorry, folks, but we don’t buy it. What we think this report speaks [...]
Archive for December, 2011
Does your Female Boss Really Have your Back?
Posted in culture, feminism, gender roles, workplace, tagged Charlotta Kratz, Devil wears prada, gender pay gap, Gloria steinem, Laura Ellingson, Lena Hensvik, Miranda Priestly, Sheryl Sandberg on December 22, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
No, Really! Whatever Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", tagged Current Directions in Psychological Science, failure, Mark D. Seery, regret, resilience, risk-taking, trauma on December 20, 2011 | 2 Comments »
That which doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Crisis is just opportunity in disguise. The universe/god/buddha doesn’t give us more than we can handle. It’s always darkest just before the dawn. Scar tissue is stronger. The cracks are where the light gets in. Blah blah blah. Here’s an interesting question: Which is worse, coming up [...]
She’s Just Not THAT Into You
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", culture, feminism, gender roles, life choices, the ticking clock, tagged Carin Perilloux, evolution, feminist, fetishization of pregnancy, hollywood on December 15, 2011 | 1 Comment »
Face it, fellas. She’s hot. You’re not. Walk away. Right? Nope. At least, that’s what an upcoming study in Psychological Science suggests. In a study of 200 undergrads at University of Texas, lead author Carin Perilloux found that the least attractive men were the most likely to think that the attractive women in a “speed [...]
The Most Important Secret to Making Big Changes? Think Small.
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", tagged changes, goals, motivation, New Years resolutions on December 13, 2011 | 1 Comment »
With New Years within spitting distance, I got to thinking about resolutions, and why it is that so many of us have found so little success with them. And here’s what I’ve come up with: we are thinking too big. I’m going to get in shape/become fluent in Mandarin/launch my business/get organized/go vegan: these are [...]
I Think Therefore I CAN!
Posted in being judged, culture, gender roles, tagged archives of sexual behavior, cognitive sex differences, confidence levels, gender stereotypes, li-jun ji, positive thinking, power, Sydney Felker, yuri miyamoto, Zach Taylor on December 8, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
Two new studies, just out this week, show that the brain is mightier than the baggage — especially when it comes to those stereotypes we women carry around in our backpacks. It’s fantastic news for women, but before we dive in: Parallel parking: Good at it? And speaking of driving: Get lost much? Stereotypes tell [...]
Why Every Issue Is a Women’s Issue
Posted in culture, economy, feminism, why women?, tagged arrogance, Census Bureau, Gloria steinem, Herman Cain, Institute for Women's Policy Research, machismo, Occupy Wall Street, pay gap, sexual harrassment on December 6, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
With Herman Cain’s candidacy on suspension and Occupy Wall Street protests being shut down (though not silenced), I got to thinking about some things. Things like inequality, male privilege, and the circumstances that allow them to continue–and which are the forces that tie such seemingly disparate things as political sexual scandal and outrageous economic inequality [...]
Censorship, iPhone Style
Posted in being judged, culture, tagged abortion, censorship, iPhone 4S, reproductive rights, Siri, the birth control pill on December 1, 2011 | 2 Comments »
When I was back home for Thanksgiving, my younger sister, also in town, was showing off her brand-new iPhone 4S–all shiny new bells and whistles to my dented and cracked two year old model. And, lawdie!, the fun we had with Siri, the new iPhone’s virtual assistant. “Siri,” we asked, “where can I dump a [...]

