The Year of the Woman? Oy vey. It’s a phrase that’s always struck me as ridiculous. It would be one thing to declare it the Year of the Short, Redheaded, Left-Handed Woman, or the Year of the Unmarried, Urban-dwelling Thirtysomething Woman, or the Year of the Woman Who Doesn’t Want to Have It All, but, […]
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The Year of The Woman, and The Hefty Burden of Making Choices
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", being judged, culture, decision-making, feminism, life choices, why women?, tagged " New York Times Magazine, "Girls", 50 Shades of Grey, A.O. Scott, Ann Romney, Bechel test, being judged, breastfeeding, career, Child care, expectations, hollywood, juggling, Lena Dunham, marriage, Paula Broadwell, Rihanna, Sandra Fluke, tiger mother, Year of the Woman on December 11, 2012| 1 Comment »
Do Our Friends’ Choices Make Us Regret Our Own?
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", decision-making, grass-is-greener, identity, why women? on June 28, 2011| Leave a Comment »
Remember when you were a kid, and you wanted to pierce your belly button or stay out all night, and you’d say to your mom, “But mooooom, everyone else is doing it!”? And then she’d say, “If everyone else jumped off a bridge, would you?” And then, if you were feeling especially petulant, you might […]
Feminista: Undecided Talks Feminism, Choices, and Having It All with Author Erica Kennedy
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", culture, feminism, grass-is-greener, identity, purpose, too many choices, why women?, worklife balance, tagged Erica Kennedy, Feminista, Gloria steinem, grass-is-greener, have it all, the road not traveled, too many choices on December 21, 2009| 3 Comments »
Readers, we’ve missed you, but we promise we’re back — and we’ve returned bearing gifts, in the form of a Q&A with the sharp, funny, honest, and slightly potty-mouthed author Erica Kennedy, whose first novel, Bling, is a New York Times Bestseller. But we bring her to you because Sydney, the main character in her […]
Choices For All! Choices For All?
Posted in culture, feminism, Paradox of Women's Declining Happiness, why women?, worklife balance, workplace, tagged choices, Council of Women World Leaders, Economix, Gender Gap Report, jezebel, Marcus Buckingham, New York Times, TIME Magazine, World Economic Forum on November 19, 2009| 5 Comments »
Marcus Buckingham has done it again. In this week’s HuffPo installment, Buckingham gets started by citing Time magazine’s special on the State of Women as saying that the gender war is over, and it was a tie. But Buckingham takes it one step further: I’m not so sure. In a war, no matter the outcome […]
Too Many Choices… In Bed, Part Deux
Posted in culture, decision-making, grass-is-greener, psychology of choice, too many choices on November 4, 2009| 3 Comments »
In the first part of this suddenly two-part series, I talked about the “cautionary matrons” who advise their younger counterparts against marriage–and against staying single. Today’s post has nothing to do with any of that. What it does have to do with is choices. Lots of them. And easy access to them. At all hours. […]
There is No Balance, Only Choices
Posted in being judged, identity, why women?, worklife balance, tagged being judged, choices, Fawn Germer, guilt, Huffington Post, need for approval, work-life balance on November 2, 2009| 6 Comments »
This ever-elusive work-life balance thing we’re all so fond of talking about? Well, what if the cold, hard truth is that there’s just no such thing? I know, I know. Telling a woman who works and also has a life that there’s no such thing as work/life balance is pretty much on par with telling […]
Too Many Choices… In Bed
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", being judged, culture, grass-is-greener, the ticking clock, tagged analysis paralysis, divorce, Elizabeth Wurtzel, Elle, fear of commitment, grass-is-greener, Irina Aleksander, Lori Gottlieb, marriage, New York Observer, Prozac Nation, Sandra Tsing Loh, settling, The Atlantic, the road not traveled, too many choices on October 23, 2009| 5 Comments »
As it is in fortune cookies, so it is in women’s lives and the choices they face… which is to say that, while the greatest measurable strides we’ve made have been in the realm of work–even, perhaps, as a result of those strides–we’ve found ourselves stumped when it comes to the choices we face over […]
Repeat After Me: Just Say No.
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", gender roles, workplace, tagged Ambition gap, Emory University, Germaine Greer, Pleasers, Serena Chen, University of California at Berkeley, Wall street Journal, workplace on January 22, 2013| 1 Comment »
If we want to close the ambition gap, a good first step might be learning how to shake our heads. There’s this great quote from Feminist icon Germaine Greer: When we talk about women having it all, what they really have all of is the work.” She was being somewhat facetious. But then again, not […]
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