So the other day, I was hiking up the mountain with my friend Lotta, who told me a story about her grandmother. I will probably get the details wrong, but the gist is this: Her grandmother, one of several siblings, grew up in a small seaboard town in Sweden, where as a young girl she […]
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Choosing the Iconic Self
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", being judged, feminism, identity on September 9, 2009| 16 Comments »
The Trouble with iComm
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", culture, decision-making, feminism, why women?, tagged Apple, Charlotta Kratz, gendered communication, iComm, Laura Ellingson, Pew Research Center, Sherry Turkle, TED Talk, texting on July 13, 2012| 5 Comments »
I sometimes wonder whether our uber-connection has left us more than a little disconnected. There’s no denying the ubiquity of iComm. Long ago, we gave up talking in favor of typing. (My land line rarely rings. Does yours?) More recently, email conversations -– thanks to the seductive buzz of the smart phones in our pockets […]
What’s A Woman To Do? Avoid the Rush.
Posted in Uncategorized on April 6, 2012| Leave a Comment »
One of the problems with decisions is we sometimes make them before we’re ready. Sometimes we’ve forced ourselves into a box. Sometimes we entered that box with a skip and a smile. Sometimes it’s been a full-court press to please the iconic self. But as the saying goes: Decide in haste, repent in leisure. Quite […]
The Real Lessons We Can Learn From Mad Men
Posted in culture, feminism, gender roles, worklife balance, workplace, tagged David Weigand, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Facebook, feminism, Mad Men, new male mystique, sexism, Stephanie Coontz, The Great Gatsby, Undecided: How to ditch the endless quest for perfect and find a career -- and life -- that works for you, work-life balance on March 22, 2012| 5 Comments »
Sure, there’s been a lot of chat about everything that’s wrong with Mad Men and why women in general and feminists in particular should hate its unrepentant misogynystic guts. And let’s face it: this is a show that glorifies gin, Lucky Strikes and getting laid (by anyone but one’s spouse). What’s not to hate, right? […]
On Getting Real
Posted in being judged, culture, identity, tagged Anderson Cooper, approval, authenticity, Elizabeth Lesser, Facebook, guilt, Katie Couric, Michelle Bachmann, New York Times, Peggy Orenstein, Sarah Ferguson, Stephanie Rosenbloom, the Pope, W, wavy gravy on September 13, 2011| 62 Comments »
Be authentic. What does that even mean, anyway? Not a whole hell of a lot, according to Stephanie Rosenbloom in this Sunday’s New York Times. The word, she says, has been watered down to the point of meaninglessness, like so many white wine spritzers. Everyone from Anderson Cooper to Sarah Ferguson to Katie Couric to […]