That gagging sound you heard last week, when Ann Romney bellowed in her best Oprah voice, “I love you, womennnnnn!”? That was me. And not because I don’t love women; I do. And not because I don’t believe that Ann Romney loves women; I’m sure she does. It’s because, at best, this sentiment is utterly […]
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The War Against Women is a War Against Everyone
Posted in culture, economy, feminism, gender roles, why women?, workplace, tagged " New York Times Magazine, "the End of Men", Ann Romney, economy, gender gap, gender roles, Hanna Rosin, health care reform, M.I.T., Michael Greenstone, reproductive rights, The Atlantic, The Hamilton Project, traditional worldview, war on women on September 4, 2012 | 2 Comments »
What Girls Can Learn From Olympic Grrrrrrrrrrrl Power
Posted in culture, feminism, gender roles, identity, tagged Elizabeth Gilbert, failure, Gabby Douglas, girl power, Gloria steinem, Jordyn Weiber, Kerri Walsh, London Olympics, Missy Franklin, Misty May-Treanor, NBCBayArea, Ramani Durvasula, risk-taking on August 3, 2012 | 2 Comments »
The other day after I got home from my run (I use the term advisedly), I got a call from the local NBC affiliate asking for a quick interview on the overall impact of “girl power” in this year’s Olympics. Within ten minutes, the reporter and her cameraman were on their way. While dashing around […]
Have It All? Why We’re Asking the Wrong Question.
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", feminism, life choices, worklife balance, workplace, tagged Anne-Marie Slaughter, Atlantic, expectations, female role models, having it all, Hillary Clinton, Lisa Belkin, Michelle Obama, Myra Strober, opportunity cost, Oprah, parenthood, Sheryl Sandbert, worklife balance, workplace structures on June 21, 2012 | 3 Comments »
I woke up this morning to a message from a former student who’d sent me a link to Anne-Marie Slaughter’s cover story in the new Atlantic. If you haven’t seen it yet, it’s a brilliant piece that lays out the reasons why women still can’t have it all — and what we as a society […]
Happy Graduation: Now Go Out There and Fail!
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", culture, decision, identity, purpose, tagged "On the Waterfront", "the Graduate, Anna Q, Emily Dickinson, failure, fear of failure, great expectations, having it all, Hillary Clinton, Kathryn Stockett, Lucille Ball, Marilyn Monroe, Ramani Durvasula, Steve Wozniak on June 1, 2012 | 1 Comment »
This being graduation season, the other day I asked the over-achieving rockstars in my senior journalism capstone class what they’d most like to hear from a commencement speaker. Thankfully, I heard no references to roads not taken nor endings-versus-beginnings. (Though I would have enjoyed a quick reference to that four-word piece of advice from the […]
Declaring a Ceasefire Against Our Sisters
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", being judged, culture, feminism, grass-is-greener, why women?, tagged Ann Romney, being single, childfree, Gloria steinem, Hilary Rosen, Larry King, Mary Elizabeth Williams, Mitt Romney, Mommy Wars, Oprah, pay gap, perfection, Salon.com, self-doubt, stay at home moms, the road not traveled, the second shift, us vs. them, working moms on April 17, 2012 | Leave a Comment »
So, the Mommy Wars. They’re back. Again. Or still. A superquick recap: As you’ve undoubtedly heard by now, last week Democratic strategist Hilary Rosen said on CNN that Republican Presidential hopeful Mitt Romney’s wife Ann, a stay at home mom, had “never worked a day in her life.” Naturally the Romney campaign latched on to […]
More Americans Than Ever Are Living Single. Here’s Why.
Posted in culture, psychology of choice, quarterlife, too many choices, Uncategorized, why women?, tagged "All the Single Ladies", "Emerging Adulthood", "Going Solo", being single, choices, commitmentphobia, Dominique Browning, Eric Kilnenberg, having it all, Jeffrey Jensen Arnett, Kate Bolick, Melanie Kurtin, New York Times, settling, The Atlantic, too many choices, trade-offs on February 14, 2012 | Leave a Comment »
Flying solo is in–in a serious way. A New York Times Q&A with Eric Kilnenberg, NYU sociology professor and author of the new book “Going Solo,” leads with the facts: In 1950, 22 percent of American adults were single. Now that number is almost 50 percent. One in seven adults lives alone. Half of all […]
Hillary for Veep!
Posted in culture, feminism, tagged ambition, Bill Keller, Condeleezza Rice, E.Q., Elizabeth Lesser, emotions, failure, Gallup, Hillary Clinton, humiliation, Joe Biden, likability, Michelle Obama, New Hampshire primary, New York Times, Obama, Oprah Winfrey, politics, Sarah Palin on January 10, 2012 | Leave a Comment »
Did you catch Bill Keller’s piece in the New York Times yesterday? Called “Just the ticket,” it’s a pretty compelling case for replacing Joe Biden with Hillary Clinton for second-to-the-top job when this year’s presidential election rolls around. Now, we love Biden’s faux pas and f-bombs as much as anyone, but–hello!–how could we not jump […]
Et Tu, Beyonce?
Posted in culture, feminism, why women?, workplace, tagged "Enlightened Sexism", Beyonce, Jemhu Greene, maternal wall, Nineteen Percent, Susan Douglas, Women's Media Center on May 31, 2011 | 2 Comments »
Funny the stuff you find on Facebook that you would never find on your own. For example, I discovered that Beyonce has this new video for her song, “Run the World (Girls)”. Have you seen it? If not, what you see are a bunch of strong, in charge, kick ass girls who are, um, running […]
It’s International Women’s Day: Do You Know Where Your 25 Cents Are?
Posted in feminism, why women?, tagged Charlie Sheen, Hillary Clinton, HR 1, International Women's Day, pay gap, Planned Parenthood on March 8, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
It’s International Women’s Day, and if you haven’t heard of it, you’re not alone. By way of celebration, I’m compelled to take stock. The good, the bad, the ugly. Ugly’s first: According to a new report issued by the White House entitled “Women in America: Indicators of Social and Economic Well-Being,” women of all levels […]
Just Don’t Call Me Ambitious
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", being judged, culture, feminism, why women?, tagged ambition, Catherine Zeta-Jones, Celia Lake, Condoleeza Rice, Drew Gilpin Faust, Elle, Hillary Clinton, Jennifer Granholm, Leslie Bennetts, Oprah, vanity fair on December 21, 2010 | 18 Comments »
Forget the B-word; if you want to hit a woman where it hurts, one word’s sure to do it, according to longtime Vanity Fair contributing editor Leslie Bennetts in a piece titled “The Scarlet A” in this month’s Elle magazine, and that word is Ambitious. Here’s Bennetts’ lede: Over the past three decades, I’ve interviewed […]

