I frequently hear from former students – usually bright, idealistic twentysomethings — long after they’ve exchanged their college dreams for, you know, reality. Often, these women are more than a little shell-shocked when they come face to face with the disconnect between their high expectations and life out there in the real world of work. […]
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One More Reason Women Are Undecided?
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", culture, economy, feminism, grass-is-greener, why women?, workplace, tagged expectations, feminism, gender discrimination, grass-is-greener, having it all, Hillary Clinton, New York Times, Undecided: How to ditch the endless quest for perfect and find a career -- and life -- that works for you, Women News, workplace on November 13, 2012 | 2 Comments »
The Glorious Gloria Explains It All
Posted in feminism, gender roles, life choices, worklife balance, workplace, tagged feminism, Gloria steinem, having it all, Ms Magazine, Naitonal Press Club on October 12, 2012 | 1 Comment »
It happened again the other day: I was being interviewed by my introductory journalism class when I got The Question: Are you a feminist? Of course, I shot back. Beat. Are you? The young woman was the tiniest bit flummoxed at being put on the spot. Well, she said. I guess it depends on how […]
How The Pursuit of Happiness Makes Us Crazy.
Posted in culture, grass-is-greener, identity, Paradox of Women's Declining Happiness, tagged "the shoulds", Consumer culture, Daniel Gilbert, Eric Hoffer, expectations, Facebook, happiness, New York Times, perfection, Ruth Whippman, Stumbling on Happiness, Undecided: How to ditch the endless quest for perfect and find a career -- and life -- that works for you on September 28, 2012 | Leave a Comment »
The last time our family got together — finding all of us in the same zipcode at the same time is a rare and wondrous feat — we hunkered down in a suite at the Holiday Inn Express (Backstory not important). With no bar or restaurant in sight, our family of foodies trekked to the […]
Me, a Cosmo Girl?
Posted in culture, feminism, tagged being single, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Edith Zimmerman, empowerment, expectations, fulfillment, have it all, Helen Gurley Brown, inequality, juggling, mouseburgers, New York Times, pressure, sex, Sex and the Single Girl, The Feminine Mystique, Undecided: How to ditch the endless quest for perfect and find a career -- and life -- that works for you on August 13, 2012 | 2 Comments »
“Good girls go to Heaven, but bad girls go everywhere.” So said Helen Gurley Brown, longtime editor of Cosmopolitan Magazine and author of the bestselling “Sex and the Single Girl.” And while one can say what one will about Cosmopolitan magazine, few can argue that HGB was not a gamechanger. Don’t get me wrong: Cosmo […]
Feminist in High Heels
Posted in being judged, culture, feminism, identity, tagged Charlotta Kratz, fashion, Fashion Talks: Undressing the Power of Style", feminism, New York Times, self-expression, Shira Tarrant, Silicon Valley, Women in tech on August 10, 2012 | 45 Comments »
I confess: I love shoes. Especially when they’re high. Until they wore out, my go-to faves were a pair of black leather ankle boots with dangerously high heels. They were actually pretty comfortable, but I would have worn them anyway because they looked damn good. I’m also a feminist. I bring this up because I […]
Olympics 2012: You go, girls!
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Alex Morgan, Australian women's basketball, Bitch Media, feminists, Go Daddy, Hope Solo, Japan women's soccer, LOCOPG, Mark Purdy, Olympics 2012, Salon, U.S. Women's soccer team, U.S. Women's Team, Women's Media Center, Yahoo! Sports on July 27, 2012 | 2 Comments »
Not gonna lie, I will be glued to the tube like most of you for the next two weeks: swimming and soccer and sprinting, oh my! Really, I can’t wait. And like you, I am reveling in the fact that this has been dubbed the “year of the woman”. As NPR reported, via the Associated […]
The Trouble with iComm
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", culture, decision-making, feminism, why women?, tagged Apple, Charlotta Kratz, gendered communication, iComm, Laura Ellingson, Pew Research Center, Sherry Turkle, TED Talk, texting on July 13, 2012 | 5 Comments »
I sometimes wonder whether our uber-connection has left us more than a little disconnected. There’s no denying the ubiquity of iComm. Long ago, we gave up talking in favor of typing. (My land line rarely rings. Does yours?) More recently, email conversations -– thanks to the seductive buzz of the smart phones in our pockets […]
Having trouble with self-control? It’s all in your head!
Posted in "What should I do with my life?", decision-making, life choices, psychology of choice, tagged Baba Shiv, George Miller, Kathleen Vohs, psychology of choice, self-control, William Hedgcock on June 9, 2012 | Leave a Comment »
When your best intentions go south, new research suggests that it wasn’t the devil that made you do it. It was your brain. Will power, the study found, is a finite resource, one that can be easily depleted. Which is why, when faced with a “do-I-or-don’t-I” kind of decision, you might find it easier to […]

